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　　　　　　 CCTV News:See through the illusion, expose the scam, master the anti-fraud knowledge, and continue to broadcast the "Rule of Law Online Eleventh Special Program": "Scam" today. If in life, we encounter difficulties in work and marriage, or suffer from diseases, how should we deal with them? There is such a so-called master who calls himself a "master" on the Internet. He can change people’s fortune by measuring eight characters, doing things and selling transshipment. Would you believe it? Mr. Xiao, a businessman, believed him.

　　　　　　 Network video: My father has two big coal mines. The coal mines collapsed, and dozens of workers had an accident under the mines. My father made all the money to compensate, and all the garages at home were sold, with tens of millions of debts.

　　　　　　 This is a bizarre story in which a man tells that he was in debt for tens of millions, but later changed his fate. When Mr. Xiao, who lives in Xiangyang, Hubei Province, saw this video, he immediately thought of his own situation.

　　　　　　 Mr. Xiao, the victim: "I am a seafood wholesaler, and my business situation was average in the past few years. The business was actually not very good because I was playing outside with my friends one day, and then I heard from my friends that I saw a fortune teller on the Internet. He felt quite accurate and introduced it to me."

　　　　　　 How did this man change his fate in the video? After reading the next fascinating content, Mr. Xiao was completely attracted.

　　　　　　 Network video: The master first measured the eight characters for me, and gave the improvement method. In two years, I paid off all the debts at home, not only bought the garage by my own ability, but also found a wife who helped me a lot.

　　　　　　 Victim Mr. Xiao: "Then I thought that this year’s business was not very smooth, and then the following comments said that fortune-telling was quite accurate, and then I added that I wanted to give it a try. I just believe in fortune telling, and I believe in such things as fate, when doing business. "

　　　　　　 It is amazing to be able to "change" the video content after pointing out.

　　　　　　 Although there are only some photos of scenery and static objects in this video, the pictures and texts are not consistent, and the specific information has not been disclosed, so the authenticity cannot be verified. But in Mr. Xiao’s mind, he felt that the story was true and credible. Seeing the end of this short video, the hero has made great achievements after being instructed by an expert, and he feels more hopeful in his chest. So I added the so-called high-ranking WeChat left in the video.

　　　　　　 Victim Mr. Xiao: "I added that person, who claimed to be ‘ Baishi mystery ’ And then a fortune teller, and then he kept sending me messages asking me if I needed divination or something. Then I asked him, can you read your palm? He said no problem, so I sent him a photo of my selfie. "

　　　　　　 Mr. Xiao sent the photo of his palm to the so-called master named Baishi Xuanji on WeChat. Soon, the so-called master sent the result of palm reading.

　　　　　　 Victim Mr. Xiao: "The content is average, that is to say, I am strong and brave. Anyway, there are many good things ahead. Later, it is said that my fortune is not very prosperous this year. There will be many twists and turns in doing things, and my wealth has all leaked out."

　　　　　　 The other party sent Mr. Xiao a long piece of palm reading, which said: Mr. Xiao is aggressive and talented, and he has enough food and clothing all his life, and he can do management and business. However, doing things is always counterproductive. I can’t keep my money for a lifetime, my career development is not smooth, and I often consume money to help my relatives and friends. I always get rich and go to wealth. These words make Mr. Xiao feel that the master is very accurate, which is very similar to his own unsuccessful experience and career. He is looking forward to it, and he can get the master’s advice and transshipment like the man in the video.

　　　　　　 Victim Mr. Xiao: "This year’s fortune is not good, and then I really lost a lot of money doing business this year, and then I said that my personality is more like it anyway. Then I asked him what the solution was. The other party told me that if the solution is simple, you need to do a ritual about wealth, so you can solve it. "

　　　　　　 Doing a "ritual" actually costs more than 8 thousand yuan

　　　　　　 The so-called master who claimed to be the mystery of Baishi suggested that Mr. Xiao "open a treasury" so as to improve his business. Mr. Xiao was moved, even though the price list sent to him was a little surprised when he first saw it, it was really not cheap! The so-called open treasury has different grades according to the amount. For example, it costs 1988 yuan to open a small treasury and 3888 yuan to open a middle treasury. If it is a prominent boss, it needs to open a large treasury, 8888 yuan. Although the price is high, Mr. Xiao feels that if he wants to make a lot of money, he has to be willing to invest. This big treasury of 8,888 yuan is in line with his boss’s identity, so he immediately transferred 8,888 yuan to the man who claimed to be the master of Baishi Xuanji, asking him to do a ritual for himself. Soon, he received a video of this practice, and the other party also told him not to tell anyone.

　　　　　　 In the video, Mr. Xiao saw his photos and birthdates appeared, so he was convinced that the so-called master had really done something for himself. Next, he began to look forward to the reversal of his fate. However, contrary to expectations, his so-called fortune did not improve immediately, and his business did not improve. The so-called big treasury that the master promised to open for him did not come true.

　　　　　　 A telecom fraud case leads to a case in progress.

　　　　　　 Here, Mr. Xiao put aside the matter of divination and practice and continued to do business. On the other hand, police in Xiangyang, Hubei Province arrested two suspects while assisting Jiangxi police in handling a telecom fraud case. When the police handling the case interrogated the two suspects, they made an unexpected discovery.

　　　　　　 In January 2018, the police in Xiangyang, Hubei Province assisted the police in Jiangxi and arrested two suspects suspected of telecom fraud.

　　　　　　 Qiu Jun, deputy director of Xiaowan Police Station of Xiangzhou District Public Security Bureau in Xiangyang City, said: "There is a surname Qin and a surname Zhu. These two suspects, the result of our judgment at that time, were in our jurisdiction. After they were arrested, our Jiangxi colleagues confessed to them when they interrogated them. They defrauded a mass in Jiangsu. At that time, they defrauded about 20,000 yuan. "

　　　　　　 The two suspects confessed to the crime of impersonating the public security law for fraud. However, when the police handling the case made an unexpected discovery during the trial. That is, Qin and Zhu are most likely related to another case of using religious superstitions for fraud.

　　　　　　 Qiu Jun, Deputy Director of Xiaowan Police Station of Xiangzhou District Public Security Bureau, Xiangyang City: "In an upscale community in Xiangyang, their boss rented a three-bedroom apartment. I said, what are you doing now? They are in the work area, just doing something to attract some customers on this website, telling their fortune, changing their luck, and wanting to do this. At that time, Qin was a bit faltering, and he couldn’t say. "

　　　　　　 The police investigating the case analyzed that the criminal suspects Qin and Zhu looked flustered and always seemed to hide something. So, the investigator immediately launched an investigation into this clue.

　　　　　　 Li Yongguo, deputy head of the Criminal Investigation Brigade of the Public Security Bureau of Xiangzhou District, Xiangyang City: "We learned about their company structure at that time. There were 6 people in the company at that time, and this Zhu and Qin were 8 people in total. They mainly do some rituals for others and the masses online. "

　　　　　　 Through investigation, the police found that the company’s main sources of income are divination, so-called practices and the sale of so-called transshipment items.

　　　　　　 Qiu Jun, deputy director of Xiaowan Police Station of Xiangzhou District Public Security Bureau, Xiangyang City: "Then their role is to find some materials on the Internet, which is equivalent to a film and television production company. They find some pictures, find some people, and type some content on that video. They want to type his micro-signal."

　　　　　　 A number of websites posted videos to trick people.

　　　　　　 The video content makes the police quite familiar. A man tells the story of changing his fate through an expert when he is down and out. This is exactly the same as the video provided by the victim Mr. Xiao when he called the police. The company posted videos on a number of websites. Once someone added the micro-signal that appeared in the video, it meant that someone was "hooked". After adding WeChat, employees of the company will call themselves "Master" and start a conversation with customers.

　　　　　　 Li Yongguo, deputy head of the Criminal Investigation Brigade of the Public Security Bureau of Xiangzhou District, Xiangyang City: "Your name and date of birth can be used to test your horoscope. After testing the eight characters, I will push you a result of testing the eight characters. This low price is 198 yuan to 398 yuan, or buy some, buy what charms, all kinds of charms to exorcise evil spirits and avoid disasters. Then it will be expensive to do things. If you do a ritual, you will charge 1998 yuan to 8888 yuan. "

　　　　　　 When the customer decides to spend money on the so-called eight-character test or practice, the employee will send the customer information to their online line. A mage who claims to be from Xi ‘an Temple will test the eight-character test. If the customer pays for the practice, this person will also send the video of the practice to the employee, and then the employee will send it to the customer.

　　　　　　 After investigation and police analysis, this company is most likely suspected of using feudal superstition for online fraud.

　　　　　　 Tracing the identity of the "mage", seeking clues and obtaining evidence

　　　　　　 The investigator immediately divided into two ways, one to trace the identity of the so-called mage, and the other to contact those who came to this company to test the eight characters and do things to find clues. They once again found the victim, Mr. Xiao, who spent 8888 yuan, and carefully analyzed the so-called practice video.

　　　　　　 Fei Wang, a policeman of the Criminal Investigation Brigade of the Public Security Bureau of Xiangzhou District, Xiangyang City: "When collecting evidence, I also collected this small video from his mobile phone. It was in a dark state, and it seemed that someone should be burning some such spiritual goods, such as those paper men and ingots."

　　　　　　 This is the video of Mr. Xiao who spent 8888 yuan and asked the master to do a ritual for him. In the whole picture, the so-called mage did not show up. At the same time, another investigator made an important discovery when tracing the identity of this mage.

　　　　　　 Qiu Jun, deputy director of Xiaowan Police Station of Xiangzhou District Public Security Bureau, Xiangyang City: "After some investigation, I found his ‘ Go online ’ The specific location is in a village below Cao County below Binzhou City, Shandong Province. "

　　　　　　 Let others call him a master, that is, the online company involved, claiming to be from a temple in Xi ‘an, but according to police investigations, he was actually located in a village in Cao County, Shandong Province. The police immediately arrested in Xiangyang, Hubei and Caoxian, Shandong.

　　　　　　 Li Yongguo, deputy head of the Criminal Investigation Brigade of the Public Security Bureau of Xiangzhou District, Xiangyang City: "Combined with analysis and judgment, this company is probably a company suspected of online fraud. In the afternoon, all the personnel of this company were controlled, and several computers and six suspects were detained on the spot. "

　　　　　　 Qiu Jun, deputy director of Xiaowan Police Station, Xiangzhou District Public Security Bureau, Xiangyang City, said: "We first found the location where Lanmou did things. It was a temporary bungalow with a row of computers and dozens of mobile phones on the desktop, and a door was opened on the side door, and it was still smoking. At this time, I led the investigators into the room together, and suddenly I found that the room was filled with smoke, all the windows were covered with thick curtains, and there was no electric light, but there were the old gentleman and the original (Tianzun) statues in it. "

　　　　　　 In this room of Lanmou, in addition to statues, offerings, etc., the police handling the case also found a box of photos, all of which were photos and personal information of the victim.

　　　　　　 Qiu Jun, deputy director of Xiaowan Police Station of Xiangzhou District Public Security Bureau, Xiangyang City, said: "All the photos scattered inside are people’s photos, and the names, birth dates and names of the people are written on it, that is, the photos and names of these customers are written on it, and then they are provided on it. Then he has another mobile phone dedicated to shooting videos there. When you open this mobile phone, it’s all the small videos of this fake practice, so the truth comes out. "

　　　　　　 Master’s fortune-telling depends entirely on online software.

　　　　　　 At this point, this criminal gang that used feudal superstition for online fraud was arrested. And their whole crime process was also found out by the police.

　　　　　　 First of all, the company located in Xiangyang, Hubei Province, arranged for employees to make superstitious videos, the content of which was mostly that the ill-fated protagonist turned over after being instructed by an expert, and the video was spread on the Internet, waiting for the victim to take the bait.

　　　　　　 Step 2: Once the victim takes the bait and adds the contact information of the "master" in the video, the employees of the company will call themselves "master" and read the victim’s palm and measure the eight characters, charging 198 to 398 yuan. And the victim’s birthdates was forwarded to the online "Lanmou", and Lanmou used fortune-telling software to calculate and send back the interpretation text.

　　　　　　 In the third step, the employee will inform the victim that the divination is not ideal. If you want to transship, you need to do a ritual, which costs 1988 to 8888 yuan. After the victim paid the money, the online "Lanmou" made a small video of the practice and forwarded it to the victim by the employee.

　　　　　　 Using superstition to trap more than 200 people

　　　　　　 The process of fraud surfaced, and criminal gangs used people’s feudal superstition to set a trap, waiting for the victims to fall into the trap step by step. According to the police investigation, there are more than 200 victims in this case all over the country.

　　　　　　 According to the police investigation, Lu Mou, the head of the company in Xiangyang, Hubei Province, was suspected of conducting Feng Shui fraud from August 2017.

　　　　　　 Li Yongguo, deputy head of the Criminal Investigation Brigade of the Public Security Bureau of Xiangzhou District, Xiangyang City: "In 2017, he did some other businesses of frying red wine online. He didn’t do it for a long time, he couldn’t make money, and his management was not good. His company gradually transformed and turned several times. Gradually turned into this company doing Feng Shui."

　　　　　　 The police investigation found that the victims were numerous and widely distributed, and most of them had feudal superstition, so they were used by criminal gangs.

　　　　　　 Fei Wang, a policeman from the Criminal Investigation Brigade of the Public Security Bureau of Xiangzhou District, Xiangyang City, said: "These victims have many identities, some are in the countryside, some are in the mountains, and some are working in enterprises, so they all have a common feature and are superstitious. Their respective needs are different. Some victims are seeking children, some victims are seeking wealth, and some victims are seeking happiness. "

　　　　　　 Whether seeking children, wealth or happiness, people who are in need and superstitious will become the prey of this criminal gang. When they added the so-called mage’s WeChat, there was already a series of words waiting for them.

　　　　　　 Qiu Jun, deputy director of Xiaowan Police Station of Xiangzhou District Public Security Bureau, Xiangyang City: "That is to say, hello, I am ‘ Baishi Daochang ’ Then some people who don’t know the truth will ask him, this master, I want to see my feelings, want to see your fortune, want to see your career, and so on. "

　　　　　　 At this time, the so-called mage will be mystifying, saying that it is also necessary to pray to the ancestors and ask the gods for shelter. Therefore, it is necessary to pay 198 to 388 yuan for the merits of the Lord, and tell the victim that the house is too small to be reluctant. Since the amount of several hundred dollars is not too much, many victims transferred money to each other.

　　　　　　 According to the members of the criminal gang, they will know what the problem is with the other party through the communication with customers in the early stage, and then they will strike while the iron is hot and tell customers that as long as they do a ritual, they can change their fortune and solve this problem. And guiding the victim to pay the money is their ultimate goal.

　　　　　　 Qiu Jun, deputy director of Xiaowan Police Station, Xiangzhou District Public Security Bureau, Xiangyang City: "It is 1988 yuan to 8888 yuan, and he gives you a price space, and then he will say, this fate, this name, this name? Give more and get more, don’t be reluctant. Oh, now you have completely grasped the psychology of this customer. Your customer, if you want to change it, you will spend more money if you want to change it. "

　　　　　　 Once the victim believes it, he will send his photo to the mage, and after a few days, he will receive a video of how to do it. In the video, the victim can see his own birthdates and his own photos on the altar, which really looks like a ritual done by the mage specially for himself.

　　　　　　 Li Yongguo, deputy head of the Criminal Investigation Brigade of the Public Security Bureau of Xiangzhou District, Xiangyang City: "This Dojo is some statues that Lan bought from Henan. He bought several Buddha statues for his home, and all the rooms were closed, where he burned incense, prayed and did things. In the process of doing things, someone does it specially, and his brother or wife videos him to make this video material. "

　　　　　　 Members of criminal gangs confessed that those who are unhappy in life and blindly expect to change their destiny through the advice of so-called experts often have a low psychological defense line and are easily deceived, so they made use of their weaknesses to tailor the so-called video of changing their destiny for them. Once these victims have the idea of reversing their life through feudal superstition, they will fall into their trap Then, they do a little more tricks on the fortune-telling results, and the victim will be more convinced.

　　　　　　 Ambiguous use of words to interpret divination content is not targeted

　　　　　　 After investigation by the police, it was found that the content of divination used by criminal gangs was ambiguous and not too targeted. For example, some victims’ marriages are not satisfactory, and the interpretation content is "the marriage feelings are not smooth, there are many twists and turns, and there are contradictions after marriage". This sentence is applicable to most people with unsatisfactory marriages. However, if the authorities are fascinated, the victim will have a strong sense of substitution, so he will feel that the interpretation is accurate and there is no doubt when transferring money to criminal gangs. When some victims think that the cost is too high, criminal gangs will use the way of reducing prices and giving away transshipment to attract victims until they get their money.

　　　　　　 On March 18, 2019, the People’s Court of Xiangzhou District, Xiangyang City, Hubei Province held a hearing on this case. The court held that six defendants, including Lan Mou and Lu Mou, fraudulently used the name of "mage", used the Internet to publish false information, adopted the method of fabricating facts and concealing the truth, and used the means of "measuring eight characters" and "doing things" to defraud other people’s property. The amount was huge. In the first instance, the court sentenced six defendants, including Lan Mou and Lu Mou, to fixed-term imprisonment ranging from three years to ten months to three years and fined them.

　　　　　　 Believe in science and get rid of superstition. On the other hand, this so-called superior person does things for people. I don’t know if he has calculated it for himself, and if he has calculated that his life has such a disaster. If you want to change your destiny and live a better life, you should use a reasonable and legal way and a positive attitude. Once there are illegal and criminal acts, then this "robbery" is doomed to be unavoidable.

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Human emotions often appear ambiguous and complicated, and it is not uncommon for us to show polarized reactions to all kinds of people and things. And such a contradictory psychological state seems to be summed up by "insulting pursuit".

With the further normalization of "insulting pursuit", in real life, the phenomenon of "insulting pursuit" seems to be more common than we thought. When searching for "insulting pursuit" on major social media, we were surprised to find that "insulting pursuit victims" emerged one after another. They gradually discovered that over the years, it turned out that not only the boss, parents and lovers, but even themselves were insulting pursuit …

"chickens can’t make babies,

I can’t cock you yet? "

"Don’t you think the purpose of my saying these words to you is to make you better?"

"But I only feel that you are suppressing me."

I blacked out my boyfriend, not only because his words were too harsh for me, but also because he didn’t understand and was "stubborn". He and I began to fall in love when we were in college. After graduation, we chose different careers in the same city. I chose the school recruitment to enter a foreign company, and he chose to take the postgraduate entrance examination for further study. Two years later, I am still a small employee in the enterprise, and he has obtained the qualification of direct blog in key universities.

At first, when things didn’t go well at work, I would complain to him, and he was willing to help me relieve my emotions. Slowly, he became more and more busy, and I didn’t want to bother him all the time because of these.

But right after he started blogging,

His words began to taste different.

When I once again told him about the troubles at work, he suddenly began to persuade me to go to the on-the-job graduate students, saying that the level of these people in my current working environment is too low, and they will get better after reading the graduate students. Between the words and the words, the attitude of "knowing the king" is really mixed.

When I heard his suggestion, I didn’t feel happy, but I was suddenly offended. When he was just a graduate student, his senior once jokingly asked him, "Since he is in graduate school, why not find another graduate student, so that we can have a common language."

From then on, I knew that in the eyes of some people, there was also "reproductive segregation" between different academic degrees, as if only with the title of graduate student could I be worthy of him and become his "‘soulmate’". "

In my life of more than 20 years, I have always thought that I am an excellent ordinary person if I have a harmonious family, work hard, my salary can support my own expenses, and I can have several hobbies after work. But he was sarcastic after I was angry. I was dissatisfied with my job, but I didn’t improve myself. I changed to a better job, which was the performance of not being motivated enough and eating and waiting for death.

This hat makes me feel wronged. I just met an unpleasant thing at work. How can I wait until I die?

A few days later, he suddenly appeared in the downstairs of my company, apologized to me face to face, and revealed his true thoughts. Because I kept telling him what was wrong at work, he felt that I was asking for help, so he tried his best to give me more reasonable suggestions to change the status quo.

After listening, I can only smile bitterly. The difficulties and unpleasantness in life are so common that not all problems can be solved. Similarly, in an intimate relationship, after one party hurts the other, a frivolous "I do it for your own good" can’t really make up for the rift. After all, no one can stand the "insulting pursuit" of his partner.

"Listen to parents scold a scold,

Can’t you? "

After I graduated in 2015, I changed many jobs, but it is difficult for me to get too much positive feedback at work. After leaving my job at the end of 2023, I returned to my hometown and was unemployed at home, preparing to apply for overseas graduate students. My relationship with my parents is actually quite good. I have had the experience of staying at home after leaving my job before, so I naively thought that I should be able to get along with them when I go home this time.

After the age of 30, never stay in the same room with your parents for more than three days. “

This is my deepest feeling since I left my job and was unemployed at home.

It’s no accident that I decided to leave my job. I have worked in internet companies, 4A companies, traditional media and other industries. However, with the increase of my work experience, on the one hand, the high pressure of my work makes it difficult for me to get positive feedback and emotional value. On the other hand, I find that my existing knowledge reserve is seriously insufficient, and it is actually difficult for me to keep up with the rapidly developing society. Seeing that the students who chose to continue their studies when they graduated at that time are still studying in their favorite fields, I decided to resign and apply for overseas graduate students, change a track and continue to struggle.

In fact, when I jump out of the unchangeable life and choose a new path, I should realize that not everyone will understand and unconditionally support my decision, even my parents are no exception.

As a 31-year-old single woman who is unemployed at home and needs to spend several years studying in a foreign country, even if she has enough savings, it is difficult to resist the dissuasion of her parents and the "humiliation" of hating iron and not turning into steel.

"Can’t you honestly find someone to marry now?"

"I have to read that book. How old is it?"

"Now it’s hard to find a job at this age. What good job can you find after graduation?"

Such questions began to appear in my conversation with my parents one after another from the day I announced to my family that I would study abroad. Last December, my mother even showed up at my party with my blind date. The scene was very embarrassing at one time, and finally everyone broke up.

But in addition to these repeated hecklings, my parents are tolerant enough to me in daily life. When I see that I am busy preparing for IELTS after leaving my job, my mother will also buy me a lot of supplements to supplement my body.

I can understand that my parents dissuaded me because they thought

I am still a child who needs to be protected.

They want me to have a stable life, such as a stable job and a happy marriage, rather than let me face the uncertainty in my life alone.

Years ago, I finally received my favorite offer. Although I still can’t resist my parents’ nagging, fortunately, my future is just around the corner. I can only hope that the old couple can let go of their "obsession" as soon as possible.

"The care of leaders,

How can it be called insulting pursuit? "

I have always felt that I am a very strong person. Since junior high school, I have been attending boarding schools. No matter in life or study, you are not allowed to be worse than others, especially in college. In the four years of college, my GPA has been quite high, and besides, I have joined many clubs. It is precisely because I was really excellent when I was a student that teachers, family and friends around me always praised me.

After graduating from undergraduate course, I listened to the opinions of my family. Instead of going to a foreign company I liked, I went back to my hometown and went to work in a local state-owned enterprise.

I thought that working in a state-owned enterprise was equivalent to providing for the elderly.

But I didn’t expect, pension? It doesn’t exist.

As an accountant, I think my working ability is acceptable, but since I started working, several old colleagues have been critical of me in every way, and when they made a little mistake, they began to question my ability and asked me, "Is this the only level of graduates from famous universities?"

The fragmented and contradictory attitude of the leaders directly under me is even more unacceptable. In private conversations, I am constantly scolded for being "not motivated enough, poor in learning ability and too lazy" and asked me to treat my work more seriously. At the meeting, he borrowed me to beat the old employees, and often praised me in front of others for my ability, obedient, good temper and sensible. "Look at Xiao Liu, who is really a hexagonal warrior."

When I was in college, I could directly feel my ability and reward based on my grades and rankings, which seemed to be getting farther and farther away from me. I am doing the same job, accepting ambiguous "praise" and straightforward depreciation. Gradually, I realize that I can no longer immerse myself in emotions, and I can’t care too much about the evaluation of my leaders and colleagues. Only "desensitization" and "fooling" can make my breasts smoother.

In the face of the leader’s "humiliation pursuit", I responded with "uh-huh". In the face of colleagues’ criticism, I responded with "ha ha ha ha", and the negative emotions of inferiority and doubt gradually drifted away from me. I successfully desensitized myself to the leader’s "humiliation pursuit".

"I humiliated myself."

You ask me what is the highest realm of PUA? That’s self PUA, and I firmly believe that I’m giving myself chicken blood by doing so.

Young people don’t work hard, long university design, every overtime night, I will scream this sentence in my heart.

I thought that after graduating from high school, the years of high-intensity preparation for exams would become history, but I didn’t expect that for civil engineering students, no qualification certificate means no job, and studying architecture means no return.

From CET-4 and CET-6 in college to construction engineer and cost engineer after graduation, I have to take time off to prepare for the exam in high-intensity work.

Too many certificates and too long road, today’s rice bowl may not be tomorrow.

I was robbed by someone with an extra certificate.

In this persistent sense of crisis and high-intensity working environment, I learned to "humiliate myself" and gradually realized a kind of happiness from it.

Before the research, I learned to go to work from six o’clock in the morning and from work to two o’clock in the evening. Every night, I told myself that today’s efficiency was not high enough, and I should concentrate more tomorrow, and I would reward myself with a day of relaxation after the exam. After the textual research, I kept telling myself that this was not the end. Don’t be afraid of the certificate and take it lightly. I should always keep studying and change to another certificate to continue the exam.

But I seem to have lost my enthusiasm for life after taking the exam. "

Eating is the energy of textual research, sleeping is the energy of textual research. If you pass the exam, you don’t reward yourself and feel that you deserve it. If you fail the exam, you will be crazy about yourself and feel that you have IQ problems.

I am the kind of person who has no fun in life. I don’t have many hobbies, but I strongly need to be recognized and affirmed. Textual research can not only give my ability recognition from the official level, but also repay my efforts in stages. It can be said that textual research is my only hobby and a tool for my livelihood.

My friends say that I am too hard on myself and my health is prone to problems. Admittedly, after graduation, my physical fitness has dropped a lot. Last year, I fainted at home because of studying all night. After being sent to the hospital, the doctor told me that it was myocarditis and needed to be nursed back to health.

In order to make my life more healthy, I also tried to get myself out of the high pressure of preparing for the exam and told myself to slow down. If I fail the next exam, I think I will tell myself: You have worked hard, but you are not lucky this time.

Love is love, it is purely naked, expressing love completely and without reservation, which is a subject that we all need to learn. Perhaps, we can hug each other and ourselves more freely by removing the packaging of "insulting pursuit".

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　　On December 16th, the 38th General Assembly of the Asian Olympic Council was held in Muscat, Sultanate of Oman. This meeting approved e-sports as the official project of the 2022 Hangzhou Asian Games.

　　The 19th Asian Games will be held in Hangzhou, China from September 10th to 25th, 2022.

　　According to the project attributes and setting principles, the Hangzhou Asian Games Organizing Committee reported the proposal that e-sports was selected as the official project of the 2022 Hangzhou Asian Games at the general meeting of the Olympic Council of Asia on the afternoon of December 16th. At the meeting, the OCA approved the plan submitted by the Hangzhou Asian Games Organizing Committee to optimize the setting of competition events, and added two events, e-sports and break dancing, on the premise of keeping 40 major events unchanged.

　　E-sports and chess belong to both "intellectual projects", while break dancing belongs to "sports dance". This means that e-sports and break dancing are officially included in the competition of Hangzhou Asian Games. Details such as the number of medals in new events and the way of competition will be improved in the follow-up discussion.

　　Following the 18th Jakarta-Megaport Asian Games in 2018, e-sports will become the official event of the Asian Games for the first time and be recorded in the national medal list.

　　From niche projects to independent industries, it is never optimistic to win glory for the country. This is a moment for the e-sports industry to create history, and it is also the glory that all e-sports users feel the same.

　　As a participant, witness and promoter of the development of the e-sports industry, Tencent E-sports will spare no effort to continue to move forward on the road of e-sports exchanges and work with all industry partners to create the best era of e-sports.

The new season has begun, and it’s time for a wave of Q2 Steam online game inventory. To be honest, there are really many good games in Q2 this year, including Disney’s IP games, My World: Legend, Hongxia Island and so on.

Perfect new world

Closing time: April 4, 2023

In 2021, Perfect World announced the news of its new work "Perfect New World". Now, after two years, "Perfect New World" has landed on the Steam platform, and it is planned to open the beta on May 4th.

According to the current public news, "Perfect New World" is an oriental fantasy MMORPG. In the game, players will be incarnated as soul masters and look for the original reincarnation. In this fantasy world, players will overcome dangerous challenges, unveil the mystery of this world, and team up with friends to explore the secrets scattered around the world.

Help its residents solve various problems by catching spirits and beasts, clearing dangerous dungeons or conquering monsters in the wild. If players prefer to compete, they can also choose to fight with other players, release your powerful skills to your opponents, and enjoy the wonderful battle with every blow full of impact!

Meet the Creator

Online time: April 4, 2023

"Meet the Creator" is the latest work made by the developer of Dawn. This work is a post-apocalyptic game with its own level. Each level is designed by the player himself, and the construction and sneak attack are completed in the first person. Design a position full of traps and guards alone or in cooperation with many people, or carry out fast-paced battles in an orderly manner and sneak up on other players’ positions.

You are the caretaker of Chimera, and Chimera is a living experiment created as a last resort to save life on earth. Take part in a strategic battle for the most precious resource on earth, which is also the key to the evolution of your Chimera: pure genetic material. Build and reinforce labyrinthine outposts to extract and protect your genetic material. Sneak into other players’ outposts and use your brains to get more genetic material. Fight for life adaptation, upgrade and evolution.

Build a sinister death trap like a maze to lure other players in and kill them with wisdom. Clever use of massive customizable bricks, traps and guards. Pre-record patrol routes for your guards with innovative AI recording system. Players can also share your outpost and watch other players come to challenge. Harvest trophies from the dead, and learn from the survivors how to strengthen your outpost and how not to lose progress and resources when robbed.

Shu Shan: The First Chapter Online Edition

Online time: April 6, 2023

I believe many players have already played the buyout version of "Shushan: the first chapter" before, and now the online version of "Shushan: the first chapter" is officially launched on April 6. The game will be downloaded free of charge and paid for the duration (point card/monthly card).

Shushan: The First Chapter is a role-playing game based on PC/iOS/ Android platform developed and operated by Chengdu Yimoxuan Network Technology Co., Ltd. This work has created a huge and three-dimensional world of repairing the truth, from Jiuhua on the edge of the desert in the north, Qingcheng wrapped in the Great Lakes in the south, and the vastness surrounded by miasma in Xizang, China, to the vast sea in the east. Each region has unique adventures, demons and beautiful scenery, which only need to be explored by players.

As a practitioner of truth, in the process of exploring this world, players will be able to master the art of imperial sword, control the power of heaven and earth, exercise the body to resist insects, acquire various miscellaneous studies, and then refine the spirit and build the foundation until they become gods. Since it is to fix the truth, the magic weapon, spiritual root and other elements are indispensable. In this respect, the game reproduces the system of cultivating truth in network literature, and puts the spiritual root, magic weapon, equipment, skill, achievement method, talent and realm into the game as the player’s combat power.

Journey of the Raven Witch

Online time: April 7, 2023

Ravenswatch is a roguelike action game with a bird’s-eye view, which combines exciting real-time fighting, deep gameplay and high replay value. Following the great success of "Curse of the Dead Gods?", Passtech returned with a brand-new formula and game experience. Players can choose to play alone, or four people can work together online.

Nightmares spread in the dreamland, eroding everything they touch. Players must hone their skills, accumulate enough strength, and use various unique heroic abilities to defeat those nightmare creatures.

In order to beat the nightmare and reach the final chapter of the story, players must not only know how to match a set of powerful equipment and skills, but also have excellent concentration and superb teamwork level. Improve your combat power in battles again and again, and then go to fight against the leader of the checkpoint after being fully prepared … or fight hard in a situation where you have no choice.

The world in the game is built on ancient folk stories and legends. From three little pigs to Nordic mythology to Arabian Nights, this game will rewrite these well-known stories in a dark fantasy style, and use their timeless charm to make the finishing touch to the atmosphere of Raven Wichita.

Border

Online time: April 14, 2023

Many players have been waiting for years, and even feel that the space shooting game "Border" is really coming this time. In March, Skystone Games and The Lancet Studio announced that the space shooting online game "Border" will be launched on the Steam platform on April 14th.

Border is a first-person shooter with a space theme in the near future, with nearly 500,000 wish lists on Steam! In the game, players can fly freely and fight in teams: space security in spacesuits shuttles through the boundless space and fights with enemies in all directions. The battle in Border is similar to a close-range dogfight in air combat, and any subtle position, angle and position can determine the outcome of the dogfight.

By the way, The Lancet Technology and Game Science are both new companies founded by former Tencent employees, and they are also making high-quality works that players expect. Game science is making Black Myth: Wukong, while The Lancet Science and Technology is making the space shooting game Border.

This preemptive experience will bring players three levels of "pioneer bundles", such as "medium cup", "large cup" and "extra large cup", which are priced at $24.99, $34.99 and $44.99 respectively in overseas areas, as shown in PAX East Game Show. Different levels of bundles have unique packages and more privileges.

Disney Infinite Ride

Release date: April 18, 2023

Disney Unlimited Ride is a racing game based on classic animated characters. Players will play the iconic characters of Disney and Pixar as track warriors, and at the same time, players can upgrade the attributes of each character and acquire exclusive skills.

The game has many familiar character lineups, including Mulan, Mickey, Maoguai, Baru, Captain Jack, Beast, etc. They are fully armed and ready to join the racing battle. Players need to upgrade the data of each character and make full use of their special skills to win the game.

Although the gameplay of "Disney Infinite Ride" is simple and easy to use, if you want to dominate every game, you must master all kinds of skills and driving skills, learn to use nitrogen to propel at the best time, turn the tail accurately, and quickly adapt to the changing track. Players can choose racing drivers in single-player mode to enjoy the exciting track alone, or post war posts to friends in local or remote multiplayer mode, or compete with players from all over the world to become real online legendary drivers.

From the Pirate Island in Pirates of the Caribbean to the jungle ruins in Fantasy Forest, and then to the scary factory in Monster Power Company, the game has several classic scenes for players to race wildly, and players can experience the fun of racing in these worlds from a new perspective.

In addition, the game also has a lot of custom functions. Players choose their favorite driver’s clothes, put on gorgeous racing uniforms, show off fashionable wheels and tails, and define their own roles and racing cars.

My World: Legend

Release date: April 19, 2023

"My World: Legend" is a RTS game derived from "My World". This game is essentially a new action strategy game, and it also incorporates elements such as action slashing and sandbox opening. Players will explore a soft land with rich resources and lush biota, which is on the verge of destruction. The raging pig spirit has arrived, and you have the responsibility to inspire your allies and lead them in a strategic battle to save the main world.

The player has a protagonist who can be directly controlled and can move around freely, and the player’s perspective has always followed him. Players also have a group of Yueling (creatures added to the new version of My World), which can be assigned to collect various resources. In addition to collecting resources scattered on the map, you can also go to NPC to do tasks to get resource rewards; These resources can be used to build various buildings and upgrade their capabilities; There is a fixed base at the beginning of the game, and players can build new bases in other places and will be resurrected at the nearest base after death.

Different from the general strategy game, My World has no battle task of level system, but provides a vast sandbox world. Maps are also randomly generated, which will constantly generate new events and enemies, and various elements can be skillfully integrated; The goal of the player is to find and destroy the portal of another world on the map, from which the enemy appears.

Hongxia Island

Release date: May 2, 2023

Hongxia Island is an open-world first-person cooperative shooting game, developed by Arkane Austin, the award-winning team that created Predation and Shame. "Hongxia Island" still brings Arkane’s well-crafted game world and immersive simulation game experience, bringing the studio’s signature gameplay to this plot-led action shooting game.

The game stage of "Hongxia Island" is an island town in Massachusetts. It was created by mistakes in scientific experiments, and the blood clan of Hongxia Island, who was born with psychic ability, blocked the sun and cut off the island from the outside world. Players and a few survivors are trapped on this island, and players need to face the evil vampire enemies who are trying to drain the town. You will be able to choose all kinds of heroes-each hero has the unique skills of the role to defeat the Blood Legion and their fanatical followers.

"Hongxia Island" perfectly combines single-player and multiplayer game options, supporting players to fight alone in the dark world, or to take risks in teams of up to four people. Teammates can try different hero configurations and combine their respective advantages to find innovative solutions to the blood clan catastrophe. You will collect a large number of special weapons and customize your characters with unique upgrades and skills to play a game style that suits you-whether it is a fierce gunfight, a stealth battle, or any other style that mixes the two.

Railway empire 2

Release date: May 26, 2023

Publisher Kalypso Media and developer Gaming Minds Studios officially confirmed that the railway management simulation game "Railway Empire 2" will be officially released on May 26th.

In Empire of Railways II, players will be transformed into intelligent entrepreneurs, who will take over a small railway company in the early 19th century and turn their steam locomotives into the main force of economic development. Players need to develop the company into the largest railway company on the mainland, and connect the city with the company through the expanding network of railway lines, bridges and tunnels, thus surpassing competitors.

Players can choose one of six different roles to lead their own railway company, and each role has its own strengths and weaknesses. If players want to challenge their abilities, they can experience 5 plot chapters or 14 different scenes in the game. Set your favorite difficulty in fully customizable free mode, or build a perfect railway network in construction mode.

In the multiplayer cooperative game, you can also cope with the competition of your own railway empire with your friends. Players can even board a train you own and sit down and enjoy the beautiful scenery as the steam locomotive gallops along the track.

Railway Empire 2 has a larger area, richer details and more vivid environment than before. The two huge maps cover the whole United States and Europe, and the key areas of each continent have more detailed maps. The improved track construction can help players focus on important decisions when promoting economic development and helping urban development. The railway signal in the game will be automatically placed, the bridge can accommodate up to 4 tracks, and the expandable station can now accommodate up to 8 tracks.

Suicide Squad: Victory over Justice League

Release date: May 26, 2023

Suicide Squad: Victory over Justice League is an atypical action-adventure third-person shooter game, which was developed by Rocksteady Studios, the creator of the acclaimed Batman: Akam Series. This game will combine those familiar character stories with the elements of third-person shooting action, which will bring a unique game experience to players.

Suicide Squad: Killing Justice League continues the world view of Batman: Akam series, with Metropolis as the stage. The story tells that Brainiac invaded the metropolis. After a fierce battle between the suicide commandos and the minions of Brainiac, it was discovered that Superman was under the mental control of Brainiac. Players will play Suicide Squad, the most dangerous villain in the DC universe, and be forced to form a team to accept a new task: defeating the Justice League.

Each team member has his own unique action combination and enhanced crossing skills, and can freely explore the dynamic and open world of metropolis, as well as various weapons for customization and various skills for mastering. This work can be played by one person, and also supports 1-4 people online. Players can switch between roles at any time.

Master behind the scenes

Release date: May 2023

"Master Behind the Scene" is a five-to-five team-to-third-person shooting game. In the turbulent battlefield, players will choose and fight in groups from nine different characters, and play the game on the basis of detonating or disarming the bomb at the target location.

At present, the game has started an unlimited test on Steam. Through this test, players can experience brand-new modes such as 3vs3 blasting mode, individual competition and team death competition, brand-new maps such as wheat fields and Alta City, as well as the umbrella defense system that can hide and shoot, and can break the bunker in front and move forward.

Master behind the scenes has many battlefield variables and a high degree of freedom. With the help of the third person movement, you can freely shuttle between most areas. Sandstorm strikes or sea fog rises, buildings and bridges collapse, bunkers explode … Many obstacles are unexpected. There are also different mission areas and magnetic fields that interfere with each other, creating a completely different battle round experience.

In the unpredictable battlefield, players need to rely on their own ability and all kinds of mobile actions, as well as strategic props and weapons to challenge the unknown battlefield strategic action TPS game. The fast-paced combat brought by the third-person perspective and the thousands of strategic possibilities to deal with the ever-changing battlefield will bring a hearty combat experience.

The store in the game also has its unique mechanism, in which players can share the property acquired in each round with team members, which can expand more strategic plans. Investing in crowdfunding can design different growth skill trees as needed. After the end of the round, you can study the opponent’s strategy, conceive the next round of combat ideas, and respond flexibly according to the characteristics of the opponent. In addition, there are many strategic props available such as scanning bombs or heavy armor.

Pathfinder

Release date: May 2023

Players who like to play online games are certainly familiar with StarCraft Armor. At TGA 2022, Digitial Extremes, the developer of StarCraft Armor, announced its new work Pathfinder. In the game, the player will become a pathfinder, release his power after choosing his own road and game style, and repel the hostile forces occupying your world at the same time. Pathfinder will release a pre-emptive experience version on PC and PlayStation platforms in May.

Players need to enter the adventure door with the help of a mysterious device called the dark dagger, and customize each game experience. Every adventure has a unique maker and challenge for you to call and control, customize the beast you want to kill, the leader you meet, the collected materials, and even other pathfinders.

In every hunting and exploration in the dark place, players can discover brand-new places, beasts and materials. Use them to make new weapons and equipment and awaken powerful new pathfinders. Collect every weapon and home item, read every book, explore all locations to complete your own picture book system and upgrade your level.

In the dark, players need to control and use the power of powerful pathfinders! Use a variety of unique skills for adventure fighting, whether it is magic, melee, mysterious technology, players will always find a game style that suits your taste. Travel through the immersive world with other players and shape your own adventure in the way you want. By formulating the exploration content, choose the enemy who wants to fight with it.

Warhammer 40K: Explosive Gun

Release date: May 24, 2023

Developed by the independent R&D team Auroch Digital and the well-known series Warhammer 40K in Games Workshop, the new FPS work Warhammer 40K: Bolt Gun is scheduled to come out on the platform of PC steam/PS4/PS5/Xbox One/Xbox Series X | s/Nintendo Switch on May 24th.

Focus Entertainment said that "Warhammer 40K: Bomb Gun" is a retro-style shooting game. With the unique visual style of nostalgic shooting games in the 1990s, combined with smooth gameplay, it leads players to fill the bomb gun together and show frantic super force.

According to the official, the player will play a super-powerful interstellar warrior in the game, crossing the Milky Way as a dangerous mission, and fighting against chaotic interstellar warriors and chaotic demons. Players will be able to experience the fun of running, jumping and sprinting in huge levels, shooting heresies all over the galaxy, and fully feel the satisfaction of slamming and high mobility from the gun battle.

Street fighter 6

Release date: June 2, 2023

Players who like fighting games are certainly familiar with the Street Fighter series. The latest work of the series, Street Fighter 6, has also been confirmed to be officially released on June 2.

Street Fighter 6 adopts the RE engine developed by Capcom, which is very different from previous works such as Street Fighter 4 and Street Fighter 5 in style and theme. It is more urban and grounded, emphasizing the "street" part of Street Fighter.

The painting will be a combination of realism and graffiti art, changing from ink painting style to street painting style. generate’s paint special effects on heavy blows and moves make the whole painting very impactful. Long, Chun-Li and other old characters also adopted different character designs and costumes, and added unique new characters.

Street Fighter 6 will have three modes of play, namely, the traditional fighting mode "fighting battlefield", the fighting center for players to learn and learn, and the immersive plot mode "traveling around the world" for single play.

In the immersive story mode of "traveling around the world", players can create a protagonist who will be a member of the player’s body through rich virtual image creation functions, interact with the residents of the Street Fighter world, and learn moves from Long and Chun-Li, so as to fight against various enemies.

《THE FINALS》

Release time: the first half of 2023

"THE FINALS" is a team-to-team FPS end tour. The core of the game is to copy the virtual battlefield of the real place and join hands with teammates to fight with the enemy. It is worth mentioning that the developer Embark Studios was founded by Patrick Sderlund, the former CEO of DICE. Most of the members came from the DICE development team and participated in the development of Battlefield series, Star Wars Frontline and other works.

Since it is the work of the old DICE, it can be destructive, but it will not be. This game is set in a very destructive world, and each game is unique. Players can form teams of three and participate in the competition. At the beginning of the competition, multiple teams compete at the same time to enter the next round. The goal is to collect, carry and store trophies, and the team with the least harvest will be eliminated. However, the battle between teams makes the results of the game uncontrollable and makes players in a thrilling state in every game.

In the game, there will be characters who use swords, guns, etc., and players can dress up the characters as they like. At the same time, during the game, players need to use a variety of skills and weapons to create their own fighting style in the destructive and changeable battlefield.

For example, you can sneak up on your opponents with the help of bunkers, and then kill them with Tatsu Yamashiro; Or you can blow up an entire building with explosives and make them fall to the ground. In the game, you can learn different skills according to different routes and use a large number of diversified weapons and equipment to play your own style. Of course, it also means that you should pay more attention to your surroundings, because opponents can attack you in the same way.