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Human emotions often appear ambiguous and complicated, and it is not uncommon for us to show polarized reactions to all kinds of people and things. And such a contradictory psychological state seems to be summed up by "insulting pursuit".

With the further normalization of "insulting pursuit", in real life, the phenomenon of "insulting pursuit" seems to be more common than we thought. When searching for "insulting pursuit" on major social media, we were surprised to find that "insulting pursuit victims" emerged one after another. They gradually discovered that over the years, it turned out that not only the boss, parents and lovers, but even themselves were insulting pursuit …

"chickens can’t make babies,

I can’t cock you yet? "

"Don’t you think the purpose of my saying these words to you is to make you better?"

"But I only feel that you are suppressing me."

I blacked out my boyfriend, not only because his words were too harsh for me, but also because he didn’t understand and was "stubborn". He and I began to fall in love when we were in college. After graduation, we chose different careers in the same city. I chose the school recruitment to enter a foreign company, and he chose to take the postgraduate entrance examination for further study. Two years later, I am still a small employee in the enterprise, and he has obtained the qualification of direct blog in key universities.

At first, when things didn’t go well at work, I would complain to him, and he was willing to help me relieve my emotions. Slowly, he became more and more busy, and I didn’t want to bother him all the time because of these.

But right after he started blogging,

His words began to taste different.

When I once again told him about the troubles at work, he suddenly began to persuade me to go to the on-the-job graduate students, saying that the level of these people in my current working environment is too low, and they will get better after reading the graduate students. Between the words and the words, the attitude of "knowing the king" is really mixed.

When I heard his suggestion, I didn’t feel happy, but I was suddenly offended. When he was just a graduate student, his senior once jokingly asked him, "Since he is in graduate school, why not find another graduate student, so that we can have a common language."

From then on, I knew that in the eyes of some people, there was also "reproductive segregation" between different academic degrees, as if only with the title of graduate student could I be worthy of him and become his "‘soulmate’". "

In my life of more than 20 years, I have always thought that I am an excellent ordinary person if I have a harmonious family, work hard, my salary can support my own expenses, and I can have several hobbies after work. But he was sarcastic after I was angry. I was dissatisfied with my job, but I didn’t improve myself. I changed to a better job, which was the performance of not being motivated enough and eating and waiting for death.

This hat makes me feel wronged. I just met an unpleasant thing at work. How can I wait until I die?

A few days later, he suddenly appeared in the downstairs of my company, apologized to me face to face, and revealed his true thoughts. Because I kept telling him what was wrong at work, he felt that I was asking for help, so he tried his best to give me more reasonable suggestions to change the status quo.

After listening, I can only smile bitterly. The difficulties and unpleasantness in life are so common that not all problems can be solved. Similarly, in an intimate relationship, after one party hurts the other, a frivolous "I do it for your own good" can’t really make up for the rift. After all, no one can stand the "insulting pursuit" of his partner.

"Listen to parents scold a scold,

Can’t you? "

After I graduated in 2015, I changed many jobs, but it is difficult for me to get too much positive feedback at work. After leaving my job at the end of 2023, I returned to my hometown and was unemployed at home, preparing to apply for overseas graduate students. My relationship with my parents is actually quite good. I have had the experience of staying at home after leaving my job before, so I naively thought that I should be able to get along with them when I go home this time.

After the age of 30, never stay in the same room with your parents for more than three days. “

This is my deepest feeling since I left my job and was unemployed at home.

It’s no accident that I decided to leave my job. I have worked in internet companies, 4A companies, traditional media and other industries. However, with the increase of my work experience, on the one hand, the high pressure of my work makes it difficult for me to get positive feedback and emotional value. On the other hand, I find that my existing knowledge reserve is seriously insufficient, and it is actually difficult for me to keep up with the rapidly developing society. Seeing that the students who chose to continue their studies when they graduated at that time are still studying in their favorite fields, I decided to resign and apply for overseas graduate students, change a track and continue to struggle.

In fact, when I jump out of the unchangeable life and choose a new path, I should realize that not everyone will understand and unconditionally support my decision, even my parents are no exception.

As a 31-year-old single woman who is unemployed at home and needs to spend several years studying in a foreign country, even if she has enough savings, it is difficult to resist the dissuasion of her parents and the "humiliation" of hating iron and not turning into steel.

"Can’t you honestly find someone to marry now?"

"I have to read that book. How old is it?"

"Now it’s hard to find a job at this age. What good job can you find after graduation?"

Such questions began to appear in my conversation with my parents one after another from the day I announced to my family that I would study abroad. Last December, my mother even showed up at my party with my blind date. The scene was very embarrassing at one time, and finally everyone broke up.

But in addition to these repeated hecklings, my parents are tolerant enough to me in daily life. When I see that I am busy preparing for IELTS after leaving my job, my mother will also buy me a lot of supplements to supplement my body.

I can understand that my parents dissuaded me because they thought

I am still a child who needs to be protected.

They want me to have a stable life, such as a stable job and a happy marriage, rather than let me face the uncertainty in my life alone.

Years ago, I finally received my favorite offer. Although I still can’t resist my parents’ nagging, fortunately, my future is just around the corner. I can only hope that the old couple can let go of their "obsession" as soon as possible.

"The care of leaders,

How can it be called insulting pursuit? "

I have always felt that I am a very strong person. Since junior high school, I have been attending boarding schools. No matter in life or study, you are not allowed to be worse than others, especially in college. In the four years of college, my GPA has been quite high, and besides, I have joined many clubs. It is precisely because I was really excellent when I was a student that teachers, family and friends around me always praised me.

After graduating from undergraduate course, I listened to the opinions of my family. Instead of going to a foreign company I liked, I went back to my hometown and went to work in a local state-owned enterprise.

I thought that working in a state-owned enterprise was equivalent to providing for the elderly.

But I didn’t expect, pension? It doesn’t exist.

As an accountant, I think my working ability is acceptable, but since I started working, several old colleagues have been critical of me in every way, and when they made a little mistake, they began to question my ability and asked me, "Is this the only level of graduates from famous universities?"

The fragmented and contradictory attitude of the leaders directly under me is even more unacceptable. In private conversations, I am constantly scolded for being "not motivated enough, poor in learning ability and too lazy" and asked me to treat my work more seriously. At the meeting, he borrowed me to beat the old employees, and often praised me in front of others for my ability, obedient, good temper and sensible. "Look at Xiao Liu, who is really a hexagonal warrior."

When I was in college, I could directly feel my ability and reward based on my grades and rankings, which seemed to be getting farther and farther away from me. I am doing the same job, accepting ambiguous "praise" and straightforward depreciation. Gradually, I realize that I can no longer immerse myself in emotions, and I can’t care too much about the evaluation of my leaders and colleagues. Only "desensitization" and "fooling" can make my breasts smoother.

In the face of the leader’s "humiliation pursuit", I responded with "uh-huh". In the face of colleagues’ criticism, I responded with "ha ha ha ha", and the negative emotions of inferiority and doubt gradually drifted away from me. I successfully desensitized myself to the leader’s "humiliation pursuit".

"I humiliated myself."

You ask me what is the highest realm of PUA? That’s self PUA, and I firmly believe that I’m giving myself chicken blood by doing so.

Young people don’t work hard, long university design, every overtime night, I will scream this sentence in my heart.

I thought that after graduating from high school, the years of high-intensity preparation for exams would become history, but I didn’t expect that for civil engineering students, no qualification certificate means no job, and studying architecture means no return.

From CET-4 and CET-6 in college to construction engineer and cost engineer after graduation, I have to take time off to prepare for the exam in high-intensity work.

Too many certificates and too long road, today’s rice bowl may not be tomorrow.

I was robbed by someone with an extra certificate.

In this persistent sense of crisis and high-intensity working environment, I learned to "humiliate myself" and gradually realized a kind of happiness from it.

Before the research, I learned to go to work from six o’clock in the morning and from work to two o’clock in the evening. Every night, I told myself that today’s efficiency was not high enough, and I should concentrate more tomorrow, and I would reward myself with a day of relaxation after the exam. After the textual research, I kept telling myself that this was not the end. Don’t be afraid of the certificate and take it lightly. I should always keep studying and change to another certificate to continue the exam.

But I seem to have lost my enthusiasm for life after taking the exam. "

Eating is the energy of textual research, sleeping is the energy of textual research. If you pass the exam, you don’t reward yourself and feel that you deserve it. If you fail the exam, you will be crazy about yourself and feel that you have IQ problems.

I am the kind of person who has no fun in life. I don’t have many hobbies, but I strongly need to be recognized and affirmed. Textual research can not only give my ability recognition from the official level, but also repay my efforts in stages. It can be said that textual research is my only hobby and a tool for my livelihood.

My friends say that I am too hard on myself and my health is prone to problems. Admittedly, after graduation, my physical fitness has dropped a lot. Last year, I fainted at home because of studying all night. After being sent to the hospital, the doctor told me that it was myocarditis and needed to be nursed back to health.

In order to make my life more healthy, I also tried to get myself out of the high pressure of preparing for the exam and told myself to slow down. If I fail the next exam, I think I will tell myself: You have worked hard, but you are not lucky this time.

Love is love, it is purely naked, expressing love completely and without reservation, which is a subject that we all need to learn. Perhaps, we can hug each other and ourselves more freely by removing the packaging of "insulting pursuit".

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　　On September 28th, official website of Henan Coal Mine Safety Supervision Bureau reported the "9.27" accident in Songzao Coal Mine of Chongqing Nengtou Chongqing New Energy Co., Ltd., saying that we should learn from the accident and effectively prevent coal mine accidents.

　　The Paper noted that the aforementioned circular disclosed the specific cause of the fire accident in Songzao Coal Mine, Chongqing: due to the serious wear of the No.2 underground belt carrying coal with large inclination, after the belt temperature rose, the belt conveyor failed to provide a temperature protection device and a smoke detector, and the belt stopped running without warning, which led to the fire of the belt, and the coal on the belt burned, resulting in toxic and harmful gases flowing back to the working face, resulting in personnel poisoning. In the process of escape, workers found that some compressed oxygen self-rescuers had zero air pressure, which seriously failed.

　　According to The Paper’s previous report, at 0: 00 on the 27th, 17 people were trapped in Songzao Coal Mine, Chongqing Energy Investment Group, Qijiang District, Chongqing, because the belt burning caused carbon monoxide to exceed the limit. As of the 27th, the search and rescue was completed, among which 16 people had no vital signs, and one person had been sent to hospital for full rescue.

　　On the 27th, a staff member of Chongqing Qijiang District Emergency Management Bureau told The Paper that the accident was caused by a belt fire on transportation equipment. The staff of the Propaganda Department of the Qijiang District Committee said that the cause of the burning of the belt has yet to be investigated.

　　According to the aforementioned report of Henan Coal Supervision Bureau, the fire accident in Songzao Coal Mine in Chongqing caused 16 deaths and 38 injuries. The bureau requires that all coal mining enterprises should learn from accidents, strengthen the investigation and management of hidden dangers of belt transportation systems, and thoroughly investigate whether the flame retardant performance of underground belts meets relevant regulations and whether the protective devices installed by belt conveyors are sensitive and reliable. Where there are hidden dangers such as non-compliance of flame retardant performance and incomplete and effective protection devices, the belt conveyor shall be stopped immediately.

On October 5th local time, Lynk & Co brought a full series of overseas models to the Qatar Geneva International Auto Show (GIMS QATAR, referred to as Qatar Auto Show) held in Doha. This is the first time Lynk & Co has participated in an overseas auto show, showing the world its strong product hard power and brand soft power, becoming a high-end sample of Chinese auto brands’ continuous improvement, and taking this opportunity to accelerate the "Asia-Pacific strategy" and layout in the Qatar market.

Founded in 1905, the Geneva International Motor Show is one of the earliest auto exhibitions held in the world, and is also known as one of the "five major auto shows in the world". Known as the "international automotive trend vane", this year’s international A-class auto show has been moved to Doha, the capital of Qatar for the first time. Lynk & Co, which has been deeply involved in the Middle East market in recent years, has used it as an important stage for the brand to make its debut at overseas auto shows.

The Lynk & Co booth for the first time "going to sea" showcased all the Lynk & Co 01, Lynk & Co 03, Lynk & Co 05, Lynk & Co 09 and other models going to sea, and re-created on the basis of the concept of "urban playground" of major domestic auto shows of Lynk & Co., Ltd., cleverly combining the characteristics of the model with the sub-audience, each model is personalized in an independent area, bringing visitors a new experience of "more than just cars".

The global new high-end SUV Lynk 01 focuses on camping scenes, combining outdoor products such as tents, folding tables and chairs, creating a free and comfortable atmosphere, showing the concept of high-quality family cars; the new generation of tidal sports sedan Lynk 03 +, parked in the black and white grid logo racing track, showing a strong performance car aura, reflecting the pursuit of speed and passion; extremely sports SUV Lynk 05 is displayed in a simple and elegant way, combined with VR experience equipment, showing the sense of intelligent electric hybrid technology; luxury smart flagship SUV Lynk 09 is the main family, with high-end leisure chairs, curved sofas and other furniture, as well as art suspended audio, interactive sand paintings and other exquisite objects placed on the wall bookshelf, highlighting the quality of life style of the target user’s family.

Auto show site,Lynk & Co has announced that Auto Class Cars, a subsidiary of Qatar’s NBK Group, will be responsible for Lynk & Co’s marketing and services in Qatar.NBK Group is a well-known local conglomerate in Qatar, with operations spanning automotive, construction, real estate, and tourism. It has represented many luxury automobile brands and has rich experience in distribution and service, laying a solid foundation for Lynk & Co’s development in Qatar.

Next, Lynk & Co will conduct in-depth analysis of user requests in the Qatar market, establish a complete distribution service system, and promote the "more than just cars" trend experience to lay a solid foundation for further cultivating the local client base. It is reported that,Lynk & Co is expected to open its first Lynk & Co center in Doha in October.In the future, we will also accelerate the layout of major cities in Qatar, enhance brand recognition and recognition, and build a unique brand perception of Lynk & Co’s "individuality, openness and interconnection".

"Born global, open and interconnected", globalization is the inherent mission of Lynk & Co. Europe is the starting point and main position of Lynk & Co’s globalization, and Asia Pacific is the new focus of the brand’s development. Since the launch of the "Asia-Pacific Strategy" in November 2021, Lynk & Co has deployed 4 Lynk & Co centers and 1 Lynk & Co space in four major Middle Eastern countries including Kuwait, Israel, Saudi Arabia and Oman.The entry into the Qatar market marks the acceleration of Lynk & Co’s "Asia-Pacific strategy". It plans to complete the overall layout of the six most mature Gulf countries in the Middle East automotive market within this year, and complete the layout of other Arab countries in 2024…

Oman’s Muscat Lynk Centre opened in August

In addition, Lynk & Co plans to complete the layout of the South East Asia left rudder market (Vietnam, Philippines) within this year, and start sales in 2024. In the future, it will also open up more South East Asia countries and initially build a channel layout in Asia and Europe.

It is understood that as of September 2023, Lynk & Co’s cumulative sales exceeded 970,000 units, and the globalization strategy was steadily advanced, achieving a virtuous development model of domestic and foreign double cycles.

　　Liu Shishi will no longer contract renewal with Tang Film and Television (referred to as Tang) at the end of the year, and the news that he will form a husband and wife file with Wu Qilong has been rampant recently. Yesterday, Tang and Liu Shishi confirmed the news respectively. Tang had many outstanding artists under his name. After Yuan Hong, Lin Gengxin, and Liu Shishi left, there were also Hu Ge, Han Dongjun, Naza, etc. The "first brother" was naturally Hu Ge, and after the "first sister" Liu Shishi left, Naza was expected to become the new "first sister" of Tang.

　　Wen/Guangzhou Daily reporter, Zhang Suqin

　　Liu Shishi leaves

　　Open a mom-and-pop store at the end of the year

　　Yesterday, a person from the Tang Dynasty confirmed for the first time that Liu Shishi’s contract renewal will expire at the end of the year: "Yes, Shishi has an appointment with the Tang Dynasty at the end of the year, of course we are very reluctant to part emotionally, but after all, the husband and wife relationship is a very normal development trend, we can understand it very well, and deeply bless her! Even if the agent is no longer with Tang Dynasty, Tang Dynasty will always be her maiden family and will always be her backing."

　　Afterwards, Liu Shishi also confirmed at the Xiangshan scene of the new drama "Drunk Linglong" that she was about to leave Tang and open a mom-and-pop shop with Wu Qilong. "The contract and the termination of the contract are two different things. I am indeed approaching the time of the contract, and it is indeed because I am not young and feel that I can try new things. My husband also supports me and hopes that I can have my own things to do. What will happen after that, I have to wait until I finish filming" Drunk Linglong ". I don’t have the energy now."

　　Since Liu Shishi signed a contract with Tang Dynasty in 2007, he has successively filmed TV dramas produced by Tang Dynasty companies such as "The Legend of Immortal Sword and Fairy 3", "Step by Step" and "Xuanyuan Sword". If Hu Ge is the "first brother" of Tang Dynasty, then Liu Shishi is a well-deserved "first sister". Judging from the response of Tang Dynasty and Liu Shishi, the two sides are now "peacefully breaking up".

　　Wu Qilong founded Beijing Straw Bear Film and Television Culture Co., Ltd. in 2003, engaged in artist management and animation, film and TV drama planning and production, and the development momentum is very good. The outside world is not surprised that he and Liu Shishi opened a mom-and-pop store, and fans have also sent their blessings.

　　Starmaking brings forth new things

　　Yuan Hong, Lin Gengxin, etc. are already in charge of popularity

　　The Tang people are star-studded.

　　Hu Ge signed a contract with Tang when he was in the second semester of his first year in the acting department. Since then, he has quickly become popular with the TV series "The Legend of Immortals and Swords". Hu Ge was involved in a car accident while filming "The Legend of the Shooting Condor Hero" in 2006, and he returned after about a year of recuperation. The company has been inseparable from Hu Ge during this period, and it was not until Hu Ge recovered that "The Legend of the Shooting Condor Hero" continued to shoot. In the past two years, with "The Pretender" and "Langya Ranking", Hu Ge has become popular again.

　　Yuan Hong and Lin Gengxin were also under the Tang Dynasty. They became popular with Tang Dynasty dramas and later "ran away" one after another, and both achieved good development.

　　Jiang Jinfu has some twists and turns. Last year, Jiang Jinfu publicly announced the termination of the contract on Weibo, and Tang issued a statement alluding to Jiang Jinfu’s ingratitude. At the end of October this year, the results of the first instance of the contract dispute case were announced. Jiang Jinfu’s lawsuit to terminate the brokerage contract with Tang was rejected. Jiang Jinfu’s studio responded that it would appeal, but so far there has been no result, which has had a certain impact on Jiang Jinfu’s popularity.

　　Some people "run away", some people stay behind. At present, Tang Dynasty also has male stars such as Han Dongjun, and the development momentum is good. Han Dongjun has starred in TV dramas such as "Wuxin Mage", "Immortal Sword Cloud", "Return to 20 Years Old", "Life If We Meet for the First Time", etc., and his popularity has soared rapidly.

　　Hu Ge’s status remains unchanged

　　Naza is optimistic about Chengxin "First Sister"

　　Liu Shishi’s appointment is full, so who will be promoted to the new "first sister" of the Tang people? At present, the four little flowers that the Tang people mainly support are Naza, Jinchen, Hu Bingqing, and Chen Yao. Among them, Naza is the most favored one.

　　Naza, who signed with Tang Dynasty in December 2011, has been the focus of controversy since her debut, whether it is her "vase-like" acting skills complained by netizens or her "moving IQ" in her relationship with Zhang Han. Naza once confessed that she is "blackened physique". She is obviously a well-resourced Tang actress at present. Whether it is "The Book of Choice" starring Lu Han, or the previous "The Legend of Qingqiu Fox", both are heroines.

　　Jin Chen graduated from the Beijing Dance Academy and has a good figure. He has performed well in "The Biography of the Female Doctor Ming Fei" and "The Legend of the Qingqiu Fox".

　　Chen Yao rose to prominence in the online drama "Wuxin Master" with the role of Yue Qiluo, which is quite spiritual.

　　Hu Bingqing plays the heroine in "Whirlwind Girl", partnering with Yang Yang, Chen Xiang and Bai Jingting, and her performance is quite surprising.

　　Xiao Caiqi was also under the Tang Dynasty. Her other identity was that of a dancer, who was known to the audience for rotating on the stage for four hours in a row during the Spring Festival Gala of the Year of the Horse.

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　　Sheng Yilun has a dispute with the brokerage company

　　Guangzhou Daily News (reporter Zhang Suqin) recently came out that actor Sheng Yilun sued the owner Beijing Leyang Film and Television Media Co., Ltd. (hereinafter referred to as Leyang Film and Television) to the court for 10.515 million yuan. It is reported that Chaoyang Court has accepted the case.

　　According to Sheng Yilun, Sheng Yilun participated in a number of performing arts activities and TV dramas arranged by the brokerage company, but was in arrears for no reason. After several urging, the company only paid more than 7.43 million yuan, which did not match the salary agreed in the previous contract, and replaced the broker without consent. Sheng Yilun wants to terminate the contract and asks for a salary of 10.515 million yuan.

　　At noon yesterday, Le Yang Film and Television issued a statement saying that the artist Sheng Yilun had seriously violated the brokerage contract and unilaterally proposed to terminate the contract. The company has formally sued the Chaoyang Court and called for the importance of the spirit of contract and the healthy development of competition in the industry. Le Yang Film and Television also said that Sheng Yilun has been the object of the company’s strong support for the past year, which has consumed huge manpower, financial resources and energy. This time, Sheng Yilun lied to the outside world that the company was in arrears of wages. After being popular, he suddenly broke the contract and went on a strike, and his colleagues were deeply chilled.

"I paid 70,000 multiple car purchases, but now I don’t get the car, and I can’t even get this car purchase back." Recently, Mr. Su of Hechuan reported to the upstream news hotline 966966/upstream news APP that he was happy to buy a car, but he had such a thing. In order to get this car purchase back in the past few days, he has traveled back and forth to Chongqing several times.

Paid 70,000 down payment and was told there was no car

Last month, Mr. Su spotted an SUV at the Lynk & Co car sales showroom on Shixin Road in Jiulongpo District. On May 18, he deposited the down payment of 73,800 yuan into the account of the dealer Chongqing Century Jinye Automobile Sales Company. "At that time, the salesperson said that there was a 2019 model, and I paid for it." When Mr. Su handled the pickup, he found that the car that the other party planned to give him was not a 2019 model, but a 2018 model.

Car purchase receipt.

"So I asked for a refund, and the other party agreed, but it never materialized." Mr. Su said that on May 23 and 24, he stayed at the 4S store for two days, but it was not properly resolved. The staff even said that the refund was not available, and the car could not be given even the old car. After that, Mr. Su went to the dealer to negotiate many times, but there was no result.

On the afternoon of May 27, the reporter and Mr. Su arrived at the 4S store. The light in the exhibition hall was dim, and the staff said that due to a power outage, they had a day off temporarily, and the person in charge was not there.

There was a power outage in the 4S store on the day of the interview.

During the interview, several staff members kept quiet about the matter and refused to provide the contact information of the person in charge. After repeated inquiries from reporters, one staff member admitted that he had indeed said that he could refund Mr. Su. "How long will it take to get the money?" The reporter asked, but the staff member did not reply.

The security deposit of the second-level dealer cannot be recovered either.

In the interview, the reporter learned that several other car buyers and secondary dealers have encountered similar experiences.

"The car is not given, the money is not refunded, and I am not the only one who has been deceived by this 4S store. The most excessive thing is that the store is still operating normally in the morning." Mr. Su provided reporters with the contact information of another activist, who he said had raised a banner outside the store a few days ago.

"There is indeed such a thing, I am a second-level dealer in Rongchang, and I need a few display cars, so I ordered three cars in the store, signed the contract in April, and paid a 150,000 yuan security deposit." By mid-May, the activist said, the company asked them to return the cars to the store due to internal equity issues.

What he didn’t expect was that after returning three cars and going through all the formalities, he couldn’t get the security deposit back. "We’ve been here a few times, but the boss just dragged it on anyway, and then we called the police, and the police asked us to sue, but the process was too long." The activist said helplessly that he could only continue to urge the other party to refund the security deposit.

A group of activists has been established.

Lawyers offer a variety of avenues for defending their rights

In the face of this situation, how should consumers protect their rights? Chongqing Zhitong (Liangjiang New District) Law Firm, lawyer Yue Hongwu, believes that there are many ways for consumers to protect their rights. First, consumers can directly negotiate with the manager, and if the company manager delays or has no right to resolve, they can directly consult with the company’s leaders. Second, if the negotiation fails, consumers can also seek help from the consumer rights association where the other company is located. Third, consumers can also file complaints and appeals with the local market supervision department. Fourth, consumers can also directly apply to arbitration institutions or people’s courts for arbitration and litigation, and at the same time take preservation measures to freeze and seal the company’s property and promptly protect their rights.

The lawyer said that in the case of Mr. Su, the car sales company violated the contract to provide other models of vehicles, and said that the company did not have such vehicles and refused to replace them, which was suspected of fraud. Mr. Li could actively take up legal weapons to safeguard his legitimate rights and interests.

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Recently, the global pre-sale activity of Chery Automobile Tiggo 9 was officially launched in Hefei Binhu International Convention and Exhibition Center. As a new generation of global flagship SUV, Tiggo 9 is the first model of Chery Automobile’s high-end intelligent platform-Mars architecture-super hybrid platform, with a global pre-sale price of 155,000 yuan.

According to reports, Chery Tiggo 9 is based on ultra-stability, fun driving, intelligent driving, temperature sense, touch, vision, hearing, smell and space to create nine leapfrog comfort zones. For example, in terms of ultra-stable comfort, it is equipped with CDC magnetic suspension, equipped with five vehicle state monitoring sensors, four electromagnetic shock absorbers and one controller, which can adaptively adjust the electronic damping at the millisecond level, so that the whole vehicle is always in the best driving state; In terms of driving pleasure and comfort, it is equipped with Kunpeng Power 400T+7DCT or Aisin 8AT gold power combination, among which Kunpeng Power 2.0T engine is the top ten engine of "China Heart"; In terms of intelligent network connection, it is equipped with Qualcomm Snapdragon 8155 chip and L2.9 intelligent driving assistance system.

Since March 22nd, 2005, the first SUV of Chery and the first urban SUV of China brand went on the market, the Tiggo series has achieved the achievement of "300W+ for global users" in 18 years, which has become an indelible symbol made in China.

At present, as the latest achievement of Chery’s "Eta Ursae Majoris 2025" strategy, the Mars architecture-super hybrid platform will realize the global evolution in four dimensions: forward-looking wisdom, total comfort, high-efficiency power and leapfrog security, while the Tiggo 9, which inherits the Mars architecture-super hybrid platform, will continue the aura of the Tiggo series and open a new journey for Chery in the world.

Wuhu Daily reporter Zhao Dandan

Cartography: Wang Zheping Source: Ministry of Commerce, etc.

　　Although it is summer, Wang Wenjun still has a lingering fear when he looks back on the Spring Festival just past.

　　The sudden arrival of the epidemic caught him off guard, who was already ready for the hot business during the Spring Festival. On January 25th, Chengdu issued a notice prohibiting the holding of group catering business activities, including self-catering in rural areas and dam banquets.

　　Wang Wenjun is the founder of a famous hotpot restaurant in Chengdu. In Sichuan, there are more than 30,000 hot pot restaurants. Affected by the COVID-19 epidemic, the peak season of the catering industry has faded without warning. A series of difficulties have weighed on Wang Wenjun, such as closing the market, overstocking, labor and rental costs.

　　When I wake up every day, more than 100 thousand yuan is gone

　　Sell vegetables and reduce wages, stop losses and reduce costs, and save yourself.

　　"We came all the way from a small hot pot restaurant with only 17 tables, and we have never encountered such a situation. The store is closed and the income is gone; Pay the salary and pay the rent … … When I wake up every day, more than 100,000 yuan will be gone. Coupled with the excess inventory of ingredients prepared in advance, the electricity bill of the freezer can’t stand it. " Under multiple pressures, Wang Wenjun "almost lost half his head".

　　Survival comes first. It is urgent for Wang Wenjun to help himself as soon as possible, together with other managers of the company.

　　On the one hand, the excess ingredients are sold to nearby residents at parity or even at a discount. On the other hand, employees in the city are informed to take turns to work, and employees from other places work at home. The management takes the lead in salary adjustment, and only the basic salary and social security are retained, further reducing labor costs.

　　"Rent is a big part of the cost of hot pot stores. Thanks to the competent authorities, they helped us coordinate the property, reduced the rent by 1.2 million yuan before and after, and won tax incentives." Wang Wenjun sighed.

　　De-stocking, cost reduction and rent reduction, although the hot pot restaurant suffered heavy losses during the closing period of more than one month, "fortunately, it saved itself in time and didn’t hurt its vitality." What he didn’t expect was that the original humble take-away service and the live webcast that he had never set foot in actually became his "savior" after regrouping.

　　Who is the protagonist, in-house food and take-out?

　　Comply with the demand, expand take-out, and support franchise stores.

　　"You have a new takeaway order! Please pay attention to check! " Just entering the lobby of Chengdu Huapaifang store, there came the sweet bell of online platform. The store manager said that the take-out received more than 1,500 orders a day at most, and the turnover exceeded 500,000 yuan.

　　In 2016, the company launched a takeaway service. "But hot pot is still delicious, and take-out has always been ‘ Supporting role ’ 。” Wang Wenjun said that after the resumption of work, the demand for take-away food increased greatly, from two stores to nine stores. "We make take-away posters every day, and mobilize employees to forward them along with the official Weibo and WeChat, so that relatives and friends and more residents can know that we can deliver take-away. In a week, the number of take-away orders has skyrocketed from more than 300 orders per day to more than 1,000 orders. "

　　In order to attract a partner, the company urgently formulated the assistance strategy, actively arranged the take-away operation equipment, and sorted out the operation manual and video, and successively launched the "full-sealed hot pot take-away service" in Shanghai, Guangzhou, Xi ‘an and other places. In addition to the take-away platform, the company’s WeChat WeChat official account also opens the online ordering portal.

　　The delivery staff has no contact with delivery, and carries a health certificate and a peace of mind card with them. When there were many orders, Wang Wenjun himself got on an electric car and became a "takeaway brother".

　　The take-out area is limited. What if it can’t be delivered?

　　Live broadcast with goods, cross-border cooperation, and new retail.

　　"I want to eat hot pot, but I live too far away to take delivery, and I can’t do it myself. What should I do?" A few days after the take-away service was resumed, this message from Weibo backstage caught Wang Wenjun’s attention and thought.

　　"Although it can’t be delivered, we can teach them to make hot pot through live webcast." His idea hit it off with a webcast platform, and the live broadcast room was quickly set up.

　　"Our main feature is ‘ Spicy ’ Therefore, the hot pot bottom material will use three kinds of peppers: sea pepper, millet spicy and devil spicy. Before cooking, it will be soaked in warm water and then broken. The combination of flavors will produce a unique fragrance. " In the live broadcast, the chef carefully reminded that when frying the bottom material of hot pot, onion, ginger and garlic should be fried in turn until golden, and then quickly removed, so as to avoid the smell of paste, spicy but not dry. The explanation of "digging out the bottom of the family" is gratifying.

　　"Although the preparations were hasty, and it was broadcast at the meal, there were still more than 87,000 netizens guarding the live broadcast room for the first live broadcast, indicating that our live broadcast was too ‘ Next meal ’ Yes. " Wang Wenjun said that while the chef broadcast the "teaching" live, he also launched his own variety of base packages, which were sold with "hot pot companions" such as alms chicken and self-heating clay pot rice, so that consumers could place orders online.

　　"I’m really crying, I’m going to buy materials." "The bottom material is not easy to fry, but it’s convenient and affordable to place an order online" … … The enthusiastic interaction of the audience has brought great confidence to Wang Wenjun. While the iron was hot, he immediately planned and launched activities such as "non-contact take-out and safe delivery" with local media in Chengdu, and completed more than ten live events of eating hot pot at home. "I didn’t expect the effect of cross-border cooperation to be so good, and the live broadcast could not stop. Barber shops, gyms, milk, beer and other brands and stores all come to us to cooperate and provide products and vouchers for our diners through take-away. "

　　"Boss! Another hairy belly! " As night falls, the familiar sound of ordering food rang out from the hot pot restaurant in Wang Wenjun. On March 26th, Chengdu resumed the normal business activities of catering and other service industries.

　　After many months, looking at the diners waiting in line outside the door, Wang Wenjun was no longer anxious and confused, but his nervous nerves were still not relaxed. "Take-out or live broadcast, it’s all ‘ Wartime blood transfusion ’ . It’s really hard to survive the epidemic, and it’s also a rare stress test, which forces us to re-examine and think about how to make efforts in the new retail and intelligent fields and improve ‘ Postwar hematopoiesis ’ Ability. "

　　Reporter’s notes

　　Improve the ability to be calm.

　　Influenced by the epidemic situation in COVID-19, China’s catering consumption was greatly impacted before and after the Spring Festival. Some catering enterprises adapt to market changes and face difficulties, but the current difficulties have passed, and the long-term development path still needs to be considered. Traditional dining habits, such as eating together and dining together, are changing, and consumers’ consideration of safety and health is increasing, which may have a far-reaching impact.

　　In this context, many catering enterprises have turned their attention to the new retail sector and seized the share through online sales and processing specialty dishes into standardized semi-finished products. Some enterprises have tasted the sweetness for the first time, but for most small and medium-sized catering enterprises, this is still a brand-new topic. It not only tests the financial strength and talent accumulation level, but also tests the ability of market resource integration.

　　On the one hand, keep up with the change of consumer psychology, advocate the system of separate meals, cultivate eating habits such as "public chopsticks and spoons", and promote the healthy development of catering culture; On the other hand, we should innovate the way of catering consumption, do meticulous management, find a development path that conforms to our own brand positioning, and transform and upgrade in a timely manner. Only by truly improving the "immunity" of enterprises themselves can we be calm and turn crises into opportunities.